WELCOME

You are probably thinking that your situation is complicated and you need immediate help. We’ve got you. Answer the following questions, and we will guide you with clarity, direction, and support.
Where are you in the divorce process? *
How would you describe the level of conflict between you and your spouse? *
Are any of these dynamics part of your situation? *
Do you have concerns about your emotional or physical safety? *
Which legal approach are you using or considering? *
Which areas of support are most important to you? *
How do you prefer to learn and engage? *
What is your annual income? *
What is your spouse/partner’s annual income? *
How ready are you to get support and take action? *
Do you have any urgent, time-sensitive issues? *

STAGE: DECIDING

Do you need support deciding whether to mend or end your marriage? *
Would understanding the divorce process help you feel more confident? *
Choose your Top 3 concerns and rank them in order of urgency. *
Are you currently living with your spouse? *
Would you like support with emotional regulation or communication? *

STAGE: PREPARING

Have you explored your legal rights and responsibilities? *
Have you told your spouse you’re considering or preparing for divorce? *
If yes, have the children been told? *
Are you and your spouse living under the same roof? *
If yes, do you need help creating household boundaries and agreements? *
Have you created a temporary parenting plan? *
Choose your Top 3 concerns and rank them in order of urgency. *

STAGE: ASSEMBLING YOUR TEAM

Have you hired an attorney? *
If yes, are you satisfied? *
If no or unsure, do you want help choosing the right legal approach or attorney? *
Which experts do you believe you need? *
Of the experts you selected, choose your Top 3 and rank them by priority. *
Do you need help finding or interviewing professionals? *

STAGE: NEGOTIATING

PARENTING & CHILDREN
Do you have underage children? *
Choose your Top 3 parenting needs and rank them. *
SPOUSAL SUPPORT
Do you need guidance on spousal support (alimony)? *
HOME & LIVING ARRANGEMENTS
Are you unsure how to negotiate the marital home(s)? *
Do you need help deciding whether to stay, rent, or buy? *
If yes, choose your Top 3 challenges and rank them. *
FINANCES & ASSETS
How would you describe your financial picture? *
What financial support do you need? Choose your Top 3 financial needs and rank them. *
Which complexity factors apply? *
How would you describe communication with your spouse? *
Would you like help choosing communication tools (e.g. online parenting apps)? *

STAGE: REBUILDING

HOME & ENVIRONMENT
Have you created a home that reflects your new chapter? *
What matters most in your new home? *
SELF-CARE & GROWTH
How do you currently recharge? *
How are you caring for your physical health? *
How do you support your mental fitness? *
EMOTIONAL HEALING
Where are you in your healing journey? *
What healing support would be valuable? *
PARENTING & FAMILY
What stage of parenting are you in? *
What feels most challenging right now? *
CO-PARENTING
How would you describe your co-parenting today? *
What is your biggest challenge in co-parenting? *
FINANCES & WORK/LIFE BALANCE
Where are you struggling most financially? Choose your Top 3 financial challenges and rank them. *
ESTATE & FUTURE PLANNING
Have you updated your estate documents (will, POA, beneficiaries)? *
Which updates matter most? *

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On a Scale of 1-5, How Ready Are You to Get Support and Take Action?