What to do after the divorce bomb drops
The divorce conversation has happened—and now you’re still living together. Tensions are high, emotions are raw, and the atmosphere at home feels like a ticking…
Stage of Divorce: Preparing
Divorce and the Financial Tug of War
“ A lot of this goes back to childhood and how we were raised around money.” Mikelann Valterra  Divorce often uncovers hidden money patterns that impact…
Child Advocacy: The Guardian Ad Litum (attorney for the child)
In the turbulent seas of high-conflict custody battles and family disputes, a Guardian ad Litem (GAL) serves as a lighthouse, guiding decisions in the best…
How to Create A Safe Exit Plan
As a High Conflict Divorce Strategist, I will be speaking directly to and about just that – the high conflict dynamic and how it is…
The Secret to a Peaceful Divorce
There are obvious differences in perspectives and opinions between people. How individuals approach their perspectives and opinions determines how much emotional and financial carnage they’ll…
Could You Be Fueling the Fire Unknowingly
How we think affects how we feel. How we feel affects how we act. Often our thinking is automatic. We don’t even question the thoughts…